So, I guess I AM a heretic through and through...

First off, I'm sending all of you a warm WELCOME to my first blog post.  Thank you for showing up! 

Back in December I made a confession (here it is for those of you who missed it):  

If you know me at all, you know I keep my promises.  So, grab that popcorn, if you like and enjoy an epiphany I had in the Costa Rican jungle...

Soooo, I guess I AM a heretic through and through...

A quick definition of a heretic is: "a person holding an opinion at odds with what is generally accepted." 

Since I was born, I've flown in the face of convention. In grade school, I was the tom- boy bending gender rules before it was cool. 

I was the soccer Mom who made it a point to not live vicariously thru my son's successes and instead, cheered him on when he got fascinated with a pray mantis on the field and forgot he was supposed to be running the ball towards a goal. 

When it comes to technology, movies, books (you name it), I am often the one that loves what everyone hates and vice versa.  

It turns out, that no matter what circles I find myself in, I'm the odd one out. 

Last July, deep in the Costa Rican jungle, in a room of 100 mostly bare assed women who were deep in a jade egg practice sounding and undulating to the pulse of the loud music, I had a sudden thunder bolt of anxiety and awareness run through me that traveled all the way to my cells. “I don’t belong here”. 

Here I was, in a 15-month certification to become a tantric centered Love, Sex, and Relationship coach, and the 7-day live event I had gone thru hell and high water to get to was carrying on, very loudly all around me.

And all I wanted to do was to be with my beloved exploring the nuances of sexual freedom and de-armoring... alone, together. 

Sometimes I have to go to extremes to learn who I am and who I'm not.  And it turns out that when it comes to sex, love and relationship, I'm kinda vanilla! 

And that is downright heretical in some parts of the tantric world, especially right now with a new wave of sexual empowerment messages being yelled from the rooftops. 

But what I do know and what I want to bring to YOU is...a tempered approach to all things "love, sex and relationship". 

As the Queen of intimacy, I may invite you into a sacred ritual with your beloved, or an exercise that brings you closer to who you are at essence, or sex magick practices that blow your manifesting abilities out of the water...

and it might bring you to an edge...

but I always want to find the balance, the integrated approach, the path that aligns specifically to YOUR truth...

and in the coaching world, I've found, that may be the biggest piece of evidence I really am a heretic through and through!

Until next time...

All my love, Suzanne